Having a baby is (often expected to be) just wonderful, but let's accept the reality that "we are all individuals" and can react quite differently to otherwise similar events. What for one person is simply normal and easily handled, can for someone else be an unknown and seemingly unsolvable situation. And one moment later it can be the other way around
The Post partum depression is a real phenomenon that affects many new moms (parents) Article
We do however not have to "fight the challenges" alone. There are some wonderful tools you can learn that makes your life better and even better.
Here a link to one of the better ones And please note, eventhough this is often thought of as being just for women this is also VERY useful for men.